RACISM AND VULGARITY AND HOW I CHANGED MYSELF

over the political range all state they need a more respectful society than we have today. There's no simple arrangement, obviously, however tending to the continuous bipartisan deluge of mockery, prejudice, sexism, obscenity, verbally abusing and blame dispensing might be a decent spot to begin. Heartless as it might appear, in all actuality we as a whole experience the ill effects of an all-inclusive bombing that isn't illuminating in any way. Regardless of where we are from, or what phase of financial improvement we are in, the conviction that our way of life, custom and language are better than all others is a quality to be found in truly every corner, niche and adjusted crevice of the globe. Nonetheless, it is additionally evident that customarily, such social contrasts were never used to legitimize success or mastery. 

RACISM AND VULGARITY IN INDIA go HAND BY HAND PEOPLE  WITH LOW SELF ESTEEM DO SUCH KIND OF ACTS  RECENTLY AN INDIAN MODEL UPLOADED PIC OF HER FLAUNTING BODY EVERYTHING seems SO PERFECT AND BEAUTIFUL CURVES just  JUSTIFIES HER BODY  BUT WHEN WE LOOK INTO COMMENTS  THE COMMENTS WERE SO  HARSH. VULGAR COMMENTS WERE POSTED SO OPENLY AND comment REGARDING HER FACE COLOUR HER BUTT SHOWING PICTURE I MEAN COMMON WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THE MINDS OF PEOPLE  

BEFORE STARTING MY STORY LETS HAVE A THROWBACK ON MY  2015 PICTURE 

FIRST PHASE

LET ME TELL YOU MY STORY I WAS  17 YEAR OLD WAS STUDYING IN  SCHOOL THAT IS ENGLISH MEDIUM SCHOOL TEACHERS WERE SO COOPERATIVE BUT ONE FINE DAY WHEN I WAS DOING  MY WORK IN  COMPUTER LAB  ONE TEACHER CAME NEAR ME 

SHE PASSED CERTAIN COMMENTS ON MY FACE AND BODY THAT WAS SO HUMILIATING FOR ME 

 SECOND PHASE

SECOND SHOCKING TURNING POINT WAS WHEN I DATED A GUY BUT HE LEFT ME FOR MY APPEARANCE I MEAN DUDE APPEARANCES ARE DECEPTIVE

IN MY SCHOOL TIMES I WAS AN AVERAGE LOOKING GIRL EXTREMELY SKINNY AND WHEATISH IN SKIN COLOR  

THIRD PHASE

 -AFTER CLEARING MY SCHOOL EXAMS I.E WHEN  MY SCHOOLING WAS OVER I DECIDED TO CHANGE MYSELF, I PASSED MY CA ENTRANCE EXAM I WAS DOING SO WELL WITH MY LIFE  THE GIRL WHO KNEW NOTHING ABOUT MAKEUP AND TRANSFORMATION STARTED TO TRANSFORM HERSELF I STILL REMEMBER I DONT EVEN KNEW HOW TO PUT KAJAL AND LINER ON MY EYE.  MY BESTFRIEND ON MY BDAY ALWAYS MAKES ME READY BUT NOW WHEN I LOOK AT MY TRANSFORMATION IT FEELS LIKE YOU GOO GIRL FROM UNDERCONFIDENT TO CONFIDENT MY BEST FRIEND IS SO PROUD OF ME EVEN THOUGH NOW SHE TAKES ADVICE FROM ME 

FINAL PHASE

EVERYONE STARTED NOTICING ME TABLES WERE TURNED EVERYONE WAS APPRECIATING MY WORK, MY TRANSFORMATION EVEN THOUGH MY EX STARTED NOTICING ME I STILL REMEMBER HIS WORDS "RADHIKA TUM TOH BADI SUNDAR HO GAYI HO "   he still stalks me from a fake id but now I am at certain point where I don't want unnecessary drama that I have no space for any negative energy  MY FRIENDS STARTED APPRECIATING ME I STARTED FEELING  CONFIDENT DAY BY DAY. I STARTED  UPDATING MYSELF OFCOURSE I LIKED THE ATTENTION BUT MOREOVER, I AM STILL THE  SAME  GIRL DEEP ROOTED WITH LOTS FAMILY VALUES 

ACCORDING TO ME NOTHING NEVER CHANGED EXCEPT MY APPEARANCE  I AM STILL THE SAME MY NATURE IS STILL THE SAME  AT LAST EVERYONE WILL DIE NO ONE WILL REMEMBER  THE FACE EVERYONE WILL REMEMBER YOUR ATTITUDE AND GRATITUDE TOWARDS EACH  ANOTHER 

LET ME SHOW YOU MY TRANSFORMED PICTURES

the conclusion from past year experiences   I isolated myself for 2 years that is when I was doing chartered accountancy course that typical 2 years proved to be period of bloom for me I transformed myself, I worked hard on myself 

For each excellence, there is an eye someplace to see it. For each fact, there is an ear someplace to hear it. For each affection, there is a heart someplace to get it. beauty doest matter because, in the end, we  all lose our looks but we all have is our heart lets make the world beautiful let's make the world a better place to live where let's stop racism and passing vulgar comments

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regards Radhika relan
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