WILL SHE EVER FLY ?

BEING AND BROUGHT UP IN MIDDLE-CLASS FAMILY IS VERY TOUGH  as in INDIA  status of daughters are improved only in WhatsApp status and Facebook.  well, 80 percent of girls are suffering and the rest 20 percent have the freedom to fly because of civilized parents. if I talk about my case I live in a joint family where I have to ask the permission regarding anything for example recently I was interested in joining digital marketing course the way I asked my parents was like taking their permission first because without their permission I can not do anything I am financially dependent on it thankfully my parents are civilized and mature enough they had always support my dreams. but the status in Haryana is totally different as I am a girl who belongs from state Haryana I have seen many girls have sacrificed their dreams just because of the society and their parents let me tell you my story there is a famous application we all know is tiktok so recently I created an account on it with the username of radhikarelan7 and the .reaction of my grandparents was not good at all I still remember the words "like what they will tell to their relatives "   like seriously now my relatives will tell me how to live how to breathe how to eat and what to do ?  in my opinion let your daughter fly make her feel so independent and comfortable that she can decide and take her own decisions. trust the magic of your daughter with the right guidance and freedom she will definitely make you proud  let her fly in the open sky where she can breathe cry and laugh freely .“You will teach them to fly, but they will not fly your flight. You will teach them to dream, but they will not dream your dream. You will teach them to live, but they will not live your life. Nevertheless, in every flight, in every life, in every dream, the print of the way you taught them will remain.” – Mother Teresa  something 

i have written something for my parents You've gotten me this far. For that, I bless your heart. Presently, let me go. Not in a do or die way. However, such that you'll give me you need to see me evaluate this thing called life all alone terms and see what occurs. Perhaps the Buddhist way of thinking offers us something here — we should be not very tight and not very free. As I slacken my grasp on everything that is recognizable here at home, if you don't mind extricate your inclination to need to hold on to the enhanced me that is rising. 

This is my dispatch, my flight. I may crash, yet I likely won't. So kindly don't attempt to live it for me. Let me move to my edge. To that most remote spot where I may truly develop and extend, and where my life may move in uncommon new manners. 

You may get notification from me short of what you might want, particularly when life is going incredible. In any case, attempt to let me set the tone and tone for how frequently we content and call. What's more, gracious my gosh, kindly don't make shock visits at school! Try not to be outraged in the event that I need to go to my companion's or flat mate's home for one of the up and coming school breaks, or in the event that I request to bring individuals home to our home. Attempt to be upbeat that I have new companions and need you to meet them. Look into them without being domineering. You don't have to go excessively insane with care bundles, either. I hear about these guardians, particularly mothers, who have gone wild on Pinterest to make and send the best consideration bundles. I would prefer not to be coddled at the present time and keeping in mind that I may ache for some common luxuries from home, I would prefer not to look strange among my new companions. So attempt to do this sparingly. Perhaps set aside a portion of the cash, so on the off chance that I need to travel abroad or do a cool temporary position one summer, you can visit me in that new spot. 

I will probably evaluate a ton of things in the following hardly any years, some of which you may have attempted when you were my age. Some of it will be dumb, or only for the occasion, and some might be a piece of who I am turning out to be. In the event that you need an association with me for the long stretch, acknowledge me and love me at any rate. As a result of this, and not as a result of this. Simply love me.

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RADHIKA RELAN
DAUGHTER OF NAVEEN RELAN <3