WHY IS SELF LOVE THE BEST LOVE ?

Hey guys, I hope this lockdown treating you in a better way, I know that I’m not doing much here for past few days and I’ll tell you why it’s happening, I’m trying to know myself better and searching out the ways to love myself and that’s how I was working on my blogging since past few days, The only thing I had in mind before starting this page is that I have to give my family(audience) something really good outta the box so I was trying to work on few things, I’ll be telling you through the help of this blog. So, the topic I’ll be writing today is all about us, it’s ‘SELF LOVE’. We all have grown up hearing these two words a lot but the thing is we don’t know how to do this or what it takes to understand this thing better, we often fall in love with plenty of people in our life and we give all we have and we always try to put ourselves in those situations we never thought of. We’re always taught that how we have to love our family, friends, spouse and etc etc. but but but did you just ever ask someone that ‘how do i have to love myself’ yeah I know most of the answers I’d get is no but this is not something we’re here for right? Could you all tell me this, Did you just ever ask yourself this question? Hey, c’mon you don’t have to think about this because we hardly get these kinda questions asked from the people around us. Okay, I don’t wanna make this topic more boring anymore by asking you such things because it doesn’t matter at all so we’ll begin here with the best ways to understand this but you know what? I won’t be surprised after knowing that there are so many people around us who just don’t even  know that these kinda words do exist in this world and it is just because the only thing they know about is killing their dreams and these precious days of their life to make someone else’s life better, isn’t it? I know that you must be having a few questions in your mind now so let’s discuss them?

WHAT IS SELF LOVE AND HOW CAN WE WORK ON THIS?

In a short way, we could say that self-love is all about loving, understanding, and knowing yourself more than you try to do for the people out there. Guys, one thing to understand this better is you’ve to start loving yourself more than you love your folks, you all have to make yourselves the topmost priority in your life. If you don’t know how to say no to someone and just because this is one of your weaknesses and people always try to get the best of your weakness is something like you’re giving your happiness in someone else’s pocket despite knowing everything, you’ve to learn how to say no to those things which you don’t want to happen in your life or to give another person and if that person knows your worth then he’ll be realizing things better and trying to understand you and if he doesn’t do so then you have to make yourself understand that he ain’t the right one to stay anymore and no matter how important that person is for you, if he doesn’t make you happy, doesn’t understand you then you should take a step back to make your life better with the deserving ones. I know for most of us this is really hard to accept this thing or to forget all those attachments we have had and love we gave to that person but you’ve to make yourself realize that everything comes after you and if something doesn’t give you what you deserve then leaving that place from someone’s life is far better than lying to yourself. We often give our everything to the people we don’t deserve and this is one of the main reasons we stop loving ourselves so we need to understand this thing better that nothing is more important than us in our life if we ain’t happy with something and we ain’t doing with all over heart then we don’t deserve to be there anymore because living this short life for something we ain’t happy and don’t deserve is something like living for someone who doesn’t matter in our life.

 Here are few points that I’ve learned throughout my experiences from my life:-

 • Being surrounded by the people who always motivate you and help you to show the best version of yours. Try to keep yourself away from the negative people who always drag you down and always try to make you feel bad or down for something which makes you happier. 

•Fear of being judged, we often find ourselves more uncomfortable in doing something we really want to and the only reason this thing happens is we always think about the people around us like what are they be talking about me? What will be their opinions? What will they think if they watch me like this?. Hey come on if something makes you happy and you really enjoy doing that then stop caring about what people say for that, every person has his own opinion and life to work and think on, if they judge you on the basis of your happiness then trust me you don’t need them in your life and they just don’t deserve to be there anymore. 

•GO AND DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY

•WEAR WHATEVER YOU FIND YOURSELF MORE COMFORTABLE IN

•GO TO ROADSIDE CARTS IF YOU FIND THEIR  PIZZA MORE TASTY THAN PIZZA HUT

•IT IS OKAY IF YOU ARE SKINNY, CHUBBY, SHORT, TALL,, NOT HAVING ANY OF THEM DOESN’T MAKE YOU A WEIRD PERSON AT ALL

•DON’T LET YOURSELF HURT YOU, JUST BECAUSE THEY OWN SOMETHING YOU DON’T. GOD HAS ALREADY PLANNED BETTER THINGS FOR YOU,  SO TRY TO LOVE YOURSELF RATHER THAN WANTING SOMETHING YOU DON’T DESERVE

•TRUST ME WE ALL GET WHAT WE DESERVE BUT NOT WHEN WE WANT THEM, WE GET THOSE THINGS AT THE RIGHT TIME WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE

Never stop loving yourselves, good days, bad days, good people, bad people are just a part of our life and we have to learn best out of that. Life is all about all these things but the only thing we have to keep working is on ourselves, try to get a new reason everyday to love yourself more and if you don’t get one then trust me you just don’t need one to love yourself ♥️

Thank you for reading